Some specific radar that usually make ladies insecure in relationship/marriage:
Dear Mature Dudes/Men,
Can we talk about some insecurity radar that tends to put ladies on the edge in relationships/marriage due to societal mentality?
I feel as a mature & loving man, it is your responsibility to make sure that these insecurities be handled by you as her man properly before it gets into her head. Thus, making her feel uncomfortable & less of herself because of societal standards is not smart and wise at all.
Join me let's discuss some of these ladies insecurities:
1. HER BODY IMAGE:
Please, DON'T EVER CALL HER FAT or say the word FAT to her (whether it's a joke or cruise of any sort especially when she's actually adding weight or because she's actually far from slim). That particular word or statement turns down & break down the lady's morale especially coming from the one she loves.
The best thing to do is to always appreciate her at all times & support her in trimming down if she wants to. TRUST ME, every woman knows when she's adding weight.
You don't have to tell her, she knows. It's her body so she knows. Just support her & see her glow radiantly whether she slim fit her weight or not.
2. HER AMBITIOUS ENERGY:
It's so baffling how the society has come to instigate the mentality that goes with ladies being ambitious not being a wife material, homely or operating under the leadership of a man (partner/husband).
The stereotype is alarming! Society always shame ladies for being financially liberated, ambitious, too independent or conspicuously brilliant. Why?
As a man, it's your responsibility to support her, stick by her side & let her know you got her back. Truth is, even if you're backing her, society will still shame her & if you're not there to support her mentally, it can affect her & thus, make her insecure which can affect her drive.
3. *CHEATING* PARTNER VIBES:
This actually concerns the Men. See, there are some characteristics some dudes display even if their intentions are pure but the outward energy says otherwise--The hoeing boy vibes, the cheating vibes, the flirting vibes, etc.
Truth is, even if you are doing it out of clear conscience, she might still feel insecure about it. Why? because you're overdoing it and there should be some boundaries.
As a man, it's your responsibility to protect your partner's mental state about you two in the relationship--weather courting or marriage (same goes to the female counterparts as well).
Yes, she trust you, but also do your part. Place clear boundaries!
Let me stop here for now.
Question: What other insecurity radar do you think most women get turn off by?
#energy
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